Monday, August 23, 2010

What a day!

It was a wonderful day yesterday at the zoo, our lil' love bug had a great time. The zoo was always our favorite place to go as a family and i feel so lucky to have been able to spend the day with her at the zoo.
We picked her up early from her home and i talked to her mom while brian took our lil' love bug to the car. I just wanted to reassure her that we want what is best for our lil' love bug and we don't want to step on her toes as her parent. We want to make sure that she is okay with the visits. She said our lil' love bug had a hard time after the last visit and talked about us the whole time. She said she wants the visits to continue, she feels they are the best thing for our lil' love bug.
When we got back from the zoo, her mom said again that she wants the visits to continue and she actually said 'there needs to be more visits or no visits at all'. I am going to take that at face value! We had already set up a visit for wednesday the first but i am going to ask to see her every week and more if she allows it.
I really don't know how to take our lil' love bug's bio mom, she just seems to give mixed messages and i am trying not to overstep the boundaries. I was confused by the one time she just quit calling or letting us see her because she had such a hard time, maybe she realized how hard that was for our lil' love bug. She also mentioned something about our lil' love bug missing us and talking about us and the dogs all the time, how she still thinks she lives with us; talks about her room and bed. I also told her that our lil' love bug started calling brian and me, mommy and daddy again and if she was okay with that, if she wanted her to call us something else. She said that she was fine with that and that we were a part of her family. I just keep praying she will be able to make the right decision for our lil' love bug and let her come back home to us. This is still my prayer. I still believe the best place for our lil' love bug is with us and i hope that is what will happen soon.

1 comment:

  1. ugh! so hard! i'm so glad you guys got a day at the zoo. i hope mom quits her shenanegans and lets her see you guys more. i'm hoping for her to come back too!

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