i should of known

We rushed through bath time tonight because it is the bio dad's night to call. We had the boys clean up and sit down on the couch. We waited for the call...........15 minutes later we had to explain to the boys that there was not going to be a call tonight. I felt so sad for them. They seemed to handle it okay but i know it had to be extremely upsetting. Grrr, i am so angry! Not only am i angry at the bio dad but at myself because i know better than to tell the kids they are going to get a call or a visit ahead of time. The bio dad has been so good at calling and i just didn't think he would miss his time to call. Wouldn't you know it, it was also the first time we told the kids they were getting a call!! Usually we wait till the phone actually rings before we let them know they are getting a phone call. These things always bite you in the ass when you least expect it. The bio dad said his phone wasn't working and he was trying to call and he finally got his phone to work an hour later and called to let brian know what happened. Who knows? I don't believe a word he says anymore. Once a person lies, it is difficult to believe anything they say, especially when they lie so easily and believably. It is so upsetting when you can't count on an adult to follow through with their responsibilities. How hard is it to call, one night a week!