Thursday, April 14, 2011

tomorrow, a decision?

No idea what is going on with lovebug's mom! Supposed to have a decision made this week but nothing yet. We will see how long social services lets her slide this time. I am so frustrated! Mom acts like she has no idea what is expected of her and i did talk to her today but she played dumb, saying she didn't know why the caseworker said she would call me this week. grrrr. She said she had a stressful week, missed her therapy and was going to try and get on track next week. seriously?! This cannot continue to go on like this. We need answers and we need a decision. So anyway, she called because the ex boyfriend wanted to have lovebug for an overnight tonight and i had to have her permission to let lovebug go. After close to 12 phone calls back and forth between ex boyfriend, mom and the caseworker, it was decided that lovebug would go for an overnight tonight. Ex boyfriend picked her up at about noon and said that he was picking up lovebug's mom. She was going to join them at his parents house, they live in the mountains and he wanted to take the kids sledding.

My biggest fear: they will not bring lovebug back! I am missing her soooo much and my house seems so quiet without her here.....

2 comments:

  1. I think it is weird that Ex-boyfriend gets a visit- what legal connection does he have to Lovebug? Does she have a GAL?

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  2. Mom has legal custody of lovebug so whatever she says goes. We are considered kinship at this point and her leaving lovebug with us is the same as if she would leave her kids with her grandma. She does have a GAL but not sure what her stance is on any of this.

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