so it's the weekend

Our lovebug's mom texted me, (the only form of communication she is comfortable with) and has decided that we can have our lovebug on friday, saturday and sundays. I am thankful for any time we can have with our lovebug. It just blows my mind to think that she would give up every weekend with our lovebug. I sure hope she sticks to it. It will take us holding her to it and not letting her add more days, nothing we can do about if she wants to cut the visits shorter but at least we can make sure she doesn't start adding more days. It will do no good for our lovebug to spend more and more time with us again. She spends too much time with us and it is too hard for her to distinguish between a visit and where she is actually living. Her mom needs to step up and take care of our lovebug and take responsibility for her. I want to be there and support her mom as much as we can but i am not going to add random days, if our lovebug's mom wants to keep and take care of our lovebug then she needs to do it all the time. Just because they don't have room in their vehicle, or they want to go out, or she is getting overwhelmed doesn't mean that we can step in and help her out. Maybe if she has to figure out how to do it on her own she will and unfortunately our lovebug is suffering while she tries to figure it out (if she ever does). I can help her out on the weekends and i hope that is enough of a break to make the other 4 days bearable for their household. I can take care and check on her once a week and that is all we can do, i have to pray that it is enough to keep her safe and happy. There is a reason why we are still involved with our lovebug, i just have to keep my faith and pray that it will all turn out good for her, no matter what it is that God has in store for her and her living situation. I am not sure what my role is in her life but i will continue to love her and i will continue to adapt to her needs and her mom's whims.